its not that im on going all lovey-dovie~~
but it came into my mind recently because ive talked about it with my friends a few weeks ago.
REBOUND - do you know what does this mean.. let me illustrate to you..
see that?? its the catch you make after a wrong throw.. but im not talking about basketball, im talking about ur life... see we often think that once we came out from a bad relationship or a good one, we need to quickly find a new one in order to get over the past.. in this case the new partner becomes the rebound guy/girl.
in every thing that we do , there must be a consequences well now at this case the rebound person will get him/her feelings hurt and that will crush their feelings.. see now due to our own selfishness we hurt another persons feeling and now we are the bad guy..
you might realise that every "get to know" moment is sweet.. so be carefull not to make wrong decisions that may lead to the rebound person.. because in the end you will realise that u never loved them..you just need them for a momentarily period..
and for the next in-line girls/guys:
remember just because you have a crush on them you cant force them to return your love... make sure you help them forget the past and then try to see where things are going...
dont freak them out by being so direct..play the "im cool" +"hints" game...they love it.. and that will slowly recover them from the black ragedy of their past..
well guess thats all for now..
bye2 folks..
